I hate to share this, cause I am still hurting from my husband divorcing me at this moment, but when friends ask him about the divorce, he always says, "It is what It is" I guess. that phrase makes me feel pretty sad, it makes me feel like he just never cared about me, in other words whatever!! like I never meant anything to him. that my whole marriage wasn't real. ;-( So, yes. I kind of hate that say. at this moment!!